1. Too many questions about the past:
The fact that your man
is in a relationship with you currently is proof enough that he is in
love with you and has already gotten over his past relationships. While
it’s good to know a little bit about his past, don’t take the liberty of
digging so deep that his wounds freshen up.
2. Visiting his workplace:
is quite a sensitive issue as most men don’t like their girlfriends
dropping in at their workplaces without being told. It is only if you
are in a steady relationship from a long time or engaged that you can
take the liberty of dropping into your man’s workplace uninformed.
3. Bringing up marriage:
you have been in a relationship for a long time, it’s but natural that
you will talk about marriage and settling down at some point. You may
have a conversation about this once but don’t bring up the topic again
and again. You will be at a loss if your man gets irritated by the same
conversation taking place repetitively. It’s not that men are averse to
commitment; it’s just that they take some time in taking these important
4. Pretending to be someone:
If there is
anything that men hate, it is lies and hypocrisy. Many women make the
blunder of pretending to be what they are not in reality. For instance,
if you don’t like putting on makeup and dressing too much for a party,
don’t do it just for him. He will immediately sense your discomfort. He
would much rather appreciate and love your honesty and expect you to be
what you are.
5. Compare financials:
How would you feel if
someone compared your salary figures to that of your contemporaries?
Terrible, surely! Although in today’s world, women see themselves as
equals to men, men still think of themselves as bread earners of the
family. Treat your man with respect irrespective of his earning. Don’t
ever make the mistake of comparing his financials with others.
6. Don’t attempt to mend him:
him with all his flaws and abilities. Don’t try and mother him to
change his habits according to your needs. Give your man his space and
watch how that automatically brings him to you.
7. Giving too much freedom:
you see your man talking to other women at most of the parties and even
going to the extent of flirting with them when you’re around, take that
as a warning signal and strike on it as soon as possible but don’t be
rude, do it politely and in style. You may be making a terrible mistake
by trusting your partner blindly with such behavior.
8. Expecting expression of feelings all the time:
are not used to constant expression. For instance, you should expect a
compliment from him once in a while but if you start expecting it every
day then you are calling for trouble. You have to understand that just
because men don’t express the way in which women freely do; it doesn’t
mean they don’t love with passion.
9. Talking negatively:
you Naughty Lady about others in front of your man all the time (once
in a while is acceptable of course), it will make him feel that someday
when you are not together you will talk about him in the same way with
other people. Don’t make an impression on him that you are a negative
10. Comparing Looks:
Impress your man by showing
some confidence about how beautiful and attractive you look. It’s not
your outfit but your confidence that attracts your man. In trying to
fish for compliments by comparing your physical appearance with other
women, you are just making matters worse.
often commit blunders with men in relationships. It’s a matter of
understanding that men have a certain way of dealing with things that is
different from women. Once you get this point, you will be much more
comfortable and at ease in dealing with the men in your life.